How To Get My Ex Back-Things You Shouldn't Do!

1.Shamelessly Begging
By far one of the worst things you can do.Not only is it unattractive it's also reassurance to your ex that they've made the right decision which pushes them further away.

2.Being(Acting) Extremely Nice
What is kerosene without a match? Just kerosene! Relationships need a flame,a fire,and being TOO nice is TOO boring and comes off as passive and predictable a.k.a boring and no one wants a boring person as a lover.

3.Trying To Buy Love
Flowers and gifts may seem like a nice gesture but that's all they are,"a nice gesture." It doesn't make your ex want you back,as far as they are concerned the gifts are way past due and their personal happiness is worth much more than any prize you can present.

4.Being A Doormat
Accepting anything your ex wants you to do just so you can be in the relationship again is not only unattractive its also self degrading.If you find yourself saying things like "Please stay,I'll do whatever you want,ask,or say" then chances are you're being a doormat.

5.I Love You Syndrome
"I love you and i really care about you" isn't what your ex wants to hear.I'm sure your ex knows how you feel about them but,it didn't stop the breakup did it.No, smothering your ex with affection is not romantic it only creates distance.

6.Trying To Convince Them That It Wasn't Your Fault
You simply can not convince a person to be in a relationship with you nor can you persuade your ex to fall back in love with you.Trying to do so will just result in arguments and more resentment.

7.Drunk Dialing & Text
Getting wasted and calling your ex is a very common mistake that most people make that can cause a lot of damage to an already fragile situation.It will cause you to say the wrong things and make you look dependent and weak.

8.Giving Your Ex All The Power
Feeling like your life is over without your ex,always being available for them,and waiting for their acceptance will not gain you any respect.It gives them the upper hand to treat you as they wish and no one deserves that.

9.Losing It When Your Ex Starts Dating
When most smokers quit,they need a substitute either the patch or the gum,anything to help them fill the void for the time being.This is exactly what your ex is doing,they are using a substitute to fill the void for the time being known as a rebound.This is normal being that your ex is used to being in a relationship,they feel the need for companionship but rebound relationships rarely last so don't flip out or do anything crazy.As hard as it is,give it time.

10.Not Seeking Help
Some people don't like to admit that they need help with a problem so they go day in and day out with the same cloud hanging over their heads.The best thing you can do for yourself is take control over your life by taking action.

Magic Of Making Up!